Friday, April 29, 2011

2 Deaths And a Bad Fall In The Family












I haven't been at this site much lately because I've been kind of depressed about a few awful things that have happened over the past few month. My Aunt Dorothy died at the beginning of February and a few weeks ago my Uncle Mike also passed away. They are both my Dad's siblings. And last week my Mom fell three times and on the third one wound up breaking her collarbone. She is in a special rehabilitation unit of the hospital now. I just found out today that this is not covered under charity care, only Medicare so we are responsible for 20% of the bill. My mom has so many medical bills as is. I feel so guilty for being mad at her because the reason that she fell was because she overdid it on her as needed meds which she has been doing for many years. It is hard focusing on much of anything even reading blogs and doing posts because of all of this stress. I will try to get back into doing both sometime soon. I miss my friends here.


The top photo is of mom and I at the Danbury Depot Restraunt in the Poconos PA in 1994. The one of Uncle Mike is from the Christmas of 1980 and that's my Aunt Dorothy at my 8th grade graduation party in 1983. I feel so terrible because I didn't really associate with Dad's side of the family much after my parent's divorce in the early 1990s. I only saw them a little in the mid 90's and a few times after that. Uncle Mike was in the VA hospital for many years. He would send me a Christmas card with money in it every year. I wish that I had been closer to them. I have some good memories of them from my childhood like getting to go to movies for free because my aunt worked at the theater and Uncle Mike teaching us lessons like look both ways before you cross the street and don't sit too close to the TV because it will ruin your eyes.





5 comments:

Jay Amabile said...

take your time, things will get better I assure you! As for those medical bills, demand that they put you on a payment plan, that's what I did. They are astronomical!

Blast from the Past said...

Lara -

I will be praying for you and your family... and especially for your mom's health. Take all the time you need!

Pam@GoRetro said...

Lara Ann, I'm sorry to hear about the passing of your aunt and uncle and your mom's accident. I hope she has a fast recovery and is feeling better soon.

LaraAnn said...

Thank you all so very much for your kind words, prayers and sympathy, this truly has made me feel a little better.

Chelly said...

I just read this post. I'm so very sorry for the loss of your aunt and uncle and for the hardships you and your mom are facing. You're such a great daughter and gal in general, good things will come your way. I'll be praying for your family. You all deserve some happiness.

xo

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